As a manager, managing difficult situations in the workplace is inevitable. Whether it’s resolving conflict, addressing bullying, or handling staff disagreements, your approach can make a significant difference in maintaining team morale and productivity. When not properly managed, these issues can snowball, creating a toxic environment that impacts team culture and effectiveness. Here are key strategies to handle difficult situations within your team and maintain a healthy, high-performing workplace.

Address issues early and proactively

The earlier you address issues, the easier they are to manage. Letting conflict or negative behaviour fester can lead to resentment and escalate into larger problems. Encourage open communication within your team so that concerns can be raised early. Create a culture where employees feel comfortable speaking up, knowing their concerns will be taken seriously.

Actionable tip: Hold regular one-on-one meetings with your team members to discuss both their work and any interpersonal issues they might be facing.

Be a neutral mediator in conflicts

When conflict arises, your role as a manager is to act as a neutral mediator. Avoid taking sides and instead focus on resolving the issue in a way that’s fair to all parties involved. Listen actively to understand the root cause of the conflict and help team members see each other’s perspectives. This can often lead to a more constructive discussion and a quicker resolution.

Actionable tip: Use “I” statements, such as “I understand that you both have different views on this,” to ensure you’re neutral and not escalating the conflict.

Tackle bullying and toxic behaviour head-on

Bullying and toxic behaviour can severely impact team dynamics and morale. If you suspect bullying is occurring, investigate immediately and take appropriate action. As well as being an ethical issue, employees who feel unsafe or unsupported can become disengaged, lowering overall team performance. Make it clear that bullying, harassment, or discrimination of any kind will not be tolerated in your team.

Actionable tip: Implement a clear anti-bullying policy and ensure all team members are trained on what constitutes unacceptable behaviour. Encourage an open-door policy where staff can report issues without fear of retaliation.

Foster a collaborative team culture

Preventing difficult situations before they arise starts with building a positive, collaborative team culture. Create opportunities for team members to bond, collaborate, and understand each other’s strengths and weaknesses. A team that trusts and respects one another is less likely to experience major conflicts.

Actionable tip: Organise team-building activities, both formal and informal, to help team members get to know one another better. This can help reduce misunderstandings and foster better communication.

Set clear expectations and boundaries

When managing difficult staff members, it’s crucial to set clear expectations from the outset. Define roles, responsibilities, and the behavioural standards you expect from your team. Make sure all employees understand what is acceptable conduct, and what will not be tolerated. Consistently enforce these expectations to prevent potential conflicts.

Actionable tip: Establish a clear code of conduct and communicate it to your team. Include it in your onboarding process and refer to it regularly to remind employees of your expectations.

Manage performance issues early

Difficult staff members often exhibit performance issues that, if not addressed, can lead to resentment and friction with other team members. It’s important to deal with performance problems early on by providing constructive feedback and clear goals for improvement. Be specific about what needs to change and offer the support necessary to help the employee succeed.

Actionable tip: Set up regular performance reviews or feedback sessions to address any concerns as soon as they arise. Use these meetings as an opportunity to coach employees, not just to reprimand them.

Encourage open communication

Open communication is essential for resolving disagreements and preventing misunderstandings. Encourage team members to express their concerns directly and respectfully. When employees feel they can share their thoughts in a safe environment, it reduces the likelihood of tension escalating into conflict.

Actionable tip: Foster an “open-door” policy where employees can approach you with issues at any time. Actively listen without judgment, and reassure them that their concerns will be listened to and addressed where possible.

Lead by example

As a manager, your behaviour sets the tone for your team. Model the values and behaviours you want to see in your employees, including respect, collaboration, and problem-solving. When you remain calm, composed, and solution-focused during difficult situations, your team will likely follow suit.

Actionable tip: When conflicts arise, stay calm and focus on finding solutions rather than placing blame. Your leadership style will influence how your team responds to challenges.

Use conflict resolution techniques

Sometimes, conflicts cannot be resolved through basic communication. In these cases, employing formal conflict resolution techniques can help you in managing difficult situations. Techniques such as mediation, negotiation, and compromise can be powerful tools in helping team members work through differences.

Actionable tip: Consider using a structured conflict resolution model, like the Interest-Based Relational Approach (IBR) to ensure all parties’ needs are considered and met in a fair manner. The IBR approach to conflict resolution focuses on separating people from the problem, addressing the underlying interests of all parties involved, and fostering collaboration to find mutually beneficial solutions while maintaining positive relationships.

Conclusion

Managing difficult situations in your team requires a blend of proactive leadership, clear communication, and a commitment to fostering a positive work environment. By addressing issues early, setting clear expectations, and resolving conflicts constructively, you can prevent small grievances from escalating and protect your team culture. Keep in mind that a team that feels supported, respected, and heard is far more likely to thrive—both in terms of morale and productivity.

If you need advice and support to manage a difficult situation in your team, please get in touch.

The topic of bullying at work was in the mainstream media in April 2023 after the resignation of the then deputy prime minister, Dominic Raab after an investigation in to claims of bullying made against him; especially after his underwhelming acceptance of the allegations against him, famously stating that “in setting the threshold for bullying so low, this inquiry has set a dangerous precedent” in his resignation letter.

Dominic Saab’s resignation came less than two years after Priti Patel (then Home Secretary) was accused of bullying and was found to have been in breach of the ministerial code.

What is Bullying?

When it comes to dealing with bullying at work, as a business you need to identify or define what ‘bullying’ is, so you can ensure your employees have a clear understanding of what it actually means.

In guidance from ACAS they say that there is no legal definition of ‘bullying’ but it is described as unwanted behaviour from a person or group that is either:

• Offensive, intimidating, malicious or insulting
• An abuse or misuse of power that undermines, humiliates, or causes physical or emotional harm to someone.

This behaviour could be a pattern or a one off, face to face, on social media, emails, phonecalls, outside of work or in work, and it can go unnoticed by others. It could be among peers, or in a senior/junior relationship (and despite what you might think, a senior person can be bullied by a junior person).

The union Unison also has some clear guidelines and defines bullying as persistant offensive, intimidating, humiliating behaviour, which attempts to undermine an individual or a group of employees.

Likewise Indeed.com has some advice about bullying, describing a workplace bully as someone who repeatedly harms or mistreats employees by causing them pain or engaging in other forms of physical or verbal harassment.

Legal firms often describe bullying as offensive, intimidating, malicious, insulting or humiliating behaviour, or an abuse of power or authority which attempts to undermine an individual or group of employees, and which may cause them to suffer work-related stress.

There is no shortage of information about what bullying may involve, leaving organisations with no room to claim ignorance on the subject.

Examples of bullying

Bullying takes different forms, so to illustrate the breadth of possibilities, it’s helpful to outline some examples to bring the topic to life.  Examples could include:

• Setting someone up to fail / setting impossible targets
• Spreading malicious rumours about someone
• Making humiliating comments about someone online
• Undermining someone’s authority
• Undermining someone’s competence with constant criticism
• Ridiculing someone openly, by blaming or criticising them in front of others
• Making threats about the security of someone’s employment if they exercise a right, or make a reasonable request

At work, it’s unlikely the bullying will take a physical form, and it will be more verbal and emotionally challenging behaviour.

Reality

If someone expresses upset about another person’s behaviour towards them does that automatically make them a bully?  Unfortunately, there are shades of grey when it comes to this issue.  The investigation into a complaint will be key in identifying if it was a reasonable response to someone’s behaviour.

If a someone says, “Your shoes are an interesting colour!” and the recipient of the comment states they are offended or feel belittled, does that mean they’re being bullied?  The question is whether it was reasonable to expect someone to be offended or feel belittled by a comment.

However, if someone says, “Come on, old man, do you need a sit-down?!” even as a joke, the question of whether it was reasonable to be offended by that comment may be easier to answer.  But it’s rarely that easy, so the investigation into the behaviour and the context needs to be done with an open mind, and with the definition of bullying and the relevant complaints procedure front and centre.

Direct financial risks to your business

The most obvious risk employers will be concerned about is the risk of a legal claim.  So what does that actually mean, and what is the risk?

Under the Equality Act 2010, if the bullying is due to a ‘protected characteristic’ then it is classed as harassment.  Protected characteristics are:

• Age
• Disability
• Gender reassignment
• Race
• Religion or belief
• Sex
• Sexual orientation
• Pregnancy (also covered under direct discrimination legislation)

Any harassment claim at an employment tribunal under the Equality Act 2010 has an uncapped potential award. This means it’s difficult to quantify the potential financial risk, but the cost of defending a claim will be substantial (by current estimates, upwards of £15k), without including the compensation the Tribunal panel may award, if the claim is successful.

The other risk of a bullying claim is for constructive dismissal (Unfair Dismissal). This would arise if the employee feels the bullying is so bad they have no option but to leave.  Awards for Unfair Dismissal are capped at around a year’s salary, or c.£90k, so still represents significant financial risk.

Indirect financial risks to your business

The impact of having a workplace which tolerates (or fails to address) bullying could be serious.  Your workforce will operate in a state of fear,  afraid to make mistakes or put forward new ideas.  This does not engender creativity or engagement at work, both of which will affect your productivity.

Your attrition rates will increase as employees leave what they feel is a ‘toxic’ culture. As a result your recruitment costs will go up, and you will lose talent.

In addition, do not underestimate the power of reputational damage.  Social media platforms provide an opportunity for unhappy employees to share their experiences. With the advent of websites like Glassdoor, employers who fail to deal with bullying will quickly be exposed, making it even harder to attract and retain talent. It may also affect the success of the business. Potential customers may choose a competitor due to the reputation you have as an employer, directly hitting your bottom line.

Practicalities of dealing with it

The first thing to do is make sure you have an anti-bullying and harassment policy place. You should ensure it’s shared with all your workers, and that it is followed. This is a communication and training piece, AND a leadership one.  Leaders must lead by example, otherwise the policy ‘isn’t worth the paper it’s written on’ (to coin a phrase).

Best practice is for employers to create an inclusive culture.  Peter Cheese, CEO of the CIPD states workplaces should have a “safe culture where people can speak up, where differences are respected and celebrated.” Research by the CIPD shows that employees are looking for an inclusive and supportive culture.

As well as having a policy and communicating it to everyone, leaders and managers need to ‘walk the walk’. Managers need training to recognise bullying, encourage people to flag concerns to them, and ensure they investigate and address it.  There should be a consistent approach, therefore following policy and procedure is key.  The investigation must have integrity and confidentiality so any subsequent decisions are fair and reasonable, and are seen as such.

Dealing with bullying is never easy, undoubtedly, but it needs to be done reduce risk to your business. If you have concerns about culture in your business and you don’t know where to start, get in touch here.